Series A
Ala Carte Christianity
Epiphany 6A
Matthew 5:21-37
To more fully
understand and appreciate the Bible text for today about the Sermon
on the Mount and Jesus’ new commandments about murder, lust, and
adultery, we need to read the verses immediately prior to the
commandments for today. We need to hear verses 17-20 before we begin
to focus on verses 21-37. Matthew
5:17-20, reads as follows:
“Think not that I
have come to abolish the law and the prophets. I have not come to
abolish them but to fulfill them. Truly I say to you, until heaven
and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass away from the
law until all is accomplished. Whoever relaxes one of the least of
my commandments and teaches other people to relax them, shall be
called least in the Kingdom of God. But he who does my commandments
and teaches others to do my commandments shall be great in the
Kingdom of God. For I tell you, unless your righteousness exceeds
that of the Scribes and the Pharisees, you will never enter the
Kingdom of God.”
Then, Jesus starts
to articulate his personal code of morality. Jesus first talks about
making peace with those with whom you are having conflicts. Second,
Jesus talks about lust. Third, with divorce.
But it all begins
with an attitude towards the law. He says, “Whoever relaxes one of
the least of my commandments and teaches other people to relax them,
shall be called least in the Kingdom of God.
We are living in a
time when people feel you can believe in Jesus Christ and do what
you think is right. Believe in Jesus Christ and you determine your
own set of morality. Believe in Jesus Christ and you figure out what
you think is right for you to do. A person on my right says that
Christians can do this; and a person on my left say that Christians
can do that. The two interpretations of what is right and wrong
disagree.
So we live in an
age when everybody is their own priest and pope. By that I mean to
say, people believe that they are their own priest, that they have
their own closeness to God, that they do not need an intermediary.
And everybody is their own pope. That is, people think that “I am
the final authority as to what is right and wrong. Don’t tell me
what is right and wrong. Don’t impose your values on me. I am the
final authority. I am the pope. I am the person who determines those
things which are right or wrong.”
And so we live in
an age where many Christians say that I believe in Jesus Christ and
I will do what I think is right and I do not really listen to the
counsel of others.
We also live in a
time when people believe that the Ten Commandments are the “ten
suggestions.” The Ten Commandments are merely guidelines. They are
like by-laws that can be changed. Guidelines can be changed. The Ten
Commandments are really ten guidelines that need to be undated in
every generation and adapted to every culture, so that they fit into
today’s morality.
We live in a time
what could be called “ala carte” Christianity. That is,
sometimes you go to a fancier restaurant and the menu will say
“ala carte.” You pick and chose those parts of the menu that
seem the best for you, those parts that you think you can afford.
And so you chose this and this. Well, that is the way that some
people feel about the Ten Commandments. They pick and chose those
parts of the Ten Commandments that they want to obey. For example, I
may like commandments two, three and four but commandments five, six
and seven are not so attractive to me. So Christians chose which
commandments are important to them.
For example, a few
years ago, I was talking with a man, and he was telling me about how
he was having an affair with this woman. He would go over to her
house on Saturday night and the two of them would prepare her Sunday
School lesson for the next day. And that man and the woman with whom
he was having an affair saw nothing wrong with that. They could get
together on Saturday night and prepare for the Sunday School lesson
for the next day, and see no moral contradiction.
Ala carte
Christianity. I pick and chose those parts of Christian morality
which are important to me.
It says in the text
for today, “Whomever relaxes one of my commandments.” I have
been thinking about the word, “relax,” and so I looked up the
word, “relax,” in the dictionary. It comes from a Latin word,
relaxay, which comes from laxari. We get our word, “laxative,”
from the Latin word, laxari. To give a laxative is to loosen
something up. So people want to give the Ten Commandments a
laxative. They want to loosen up the Ten Commandments. People want
to give the moral law of God a laxative so it will loosen up the
moral code of human society. For such people, the Ten Commandments
are too rigid.
In this day and
age, when we have all kinds of people wanting to be their own pope.
In this day and age, when many people believe that the Ten
Commandments are merely ten suggestions and are not really the
eternal law of God but ten guidelines. In this day and age when
people practice ala carte Christianity, picking and choosing those
part of the Christian morality that I want to obey. In this day and
age when there is great pressure to relax the moral law of God. It
is with these perspectives that we approach the gospel lesson for
today.
Jesus was gathering
with his disciples near the Sea of Galilee. While near the Sea of
Galilee, the disciples and Jesus climbed up the high brown hills
above the lake to a flat plateau up there. From that mid point on
the hillsides above the Sea of Galilee, Jesus began to teach them.
The first thing
that Jesus taught his disciples was about true joy verses temporary
happiness. In the sermon on that text two weeks ago, I told the
story of Rueben G and how he suddenly died at the age of fifty-nine.
His wife came home after work and there was Rueben on the floor. He
had died instantly of a heart attack. It was sad for everyone as we
had a funeral and then graveside service and then all the family and
friends returned to Rueben’s home. There in that very unhappy
situation was joy. Joy because Rueben knew Jesus. Joy became the
family believed in the resurrection. Joy because they had great
family love. In the midst of very unhappy situations and
circumstances, we know that there can be great joy at the very same
moment. So in his sermon to his disciples, the first topic that
Jesus talked about was joy.
Then, after
teaching his disciples about joy, he said, “You my disciples live
in a very corrupt world. It is a sick world out there. It is a
messed up world all around you. And you my disciples are to be the
salt of the earth; you are to be the moral preservative just as salt
preserves fish and just as salt preserves meat. So you my disciples
are to be the moral preservative of society. You are to help society
from decaying morally.
But not only are
you to help society from decaying, you are to be the light of the
world. You are to be the light of God and show people how to walk in
the ways of God. You are to be a light to people’s paths and show
people the difference between right and wrong. You are to show
people how to live in this world of ours. You are to be the salt of
the earth; you are to be the light of the world.
When Jesus finished
those topics, first about true joy and then about salt and light,
Jesus then began his teachings about personal morality. This is
Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount. Just as Moses came onto Mount Sinai
and gave a mountaintop sermon of the moral law of the Old Testament,
so Jesus went up to this new mountain and Jesus gave the new moral
code for personal holiness.
Jesus talks about
many different aspects of this new personal holiness, but he begins
with three new commandments, three commandments of a new morality,
of a new personal holiness.
First, he says,
“You have heard it said in the Old Testament that you shall not
kill, but I say to you, if any of you has a conflict with your
brother or sister or mother or father, or friend or relative. If any
of you have a conflict with someone when you come to church, leave
the church and leave the altar and go back home and make peace with
person and then return to church and worship. Jesus wants you and me
to go and resolve those conflicts that we have with other people.
For Jesus, the first illustration of personal holiness is that Jesus
wants us to live lives of peace. He wants us to find ways to resolve
our conflicts. Do you have a conflict with anyone today? Is there a
father, a mother, a brother or sister, a friend or neighbor with
whom you have an unresolved conflict? Jesus says for us to leave our
place of worship and go to that person with whom we are having a
conflict and attempt to resolve that conflict.
Now, I am also
keenly aware that some of you and some us have some very deep
conflicts such as with ex-spouses. I know that to go back and make
peace with such people is very difficult if not seemingly
impossible. To make peace with them does not mean that you have to
become friends with them because sometimes that is just not
possible. But Jesus wants us to resolve those conflicts that we have
with people.
Secondly, Jesus
said, “You have heard it said in the Old Testament that you shall
not commit adultery, but I say to you, whoever looks lustfully on
another woman has already committed adultery in their heart with
that person.”
This past week, I
happened to go to the 7-11 store, and there in the 7-11 store was
the most recent issue of Sport’s Illustrated magazine. It is the
issue with the now famous swimming suit contest. Whoof. The pages
just jumped right off of the counter. My goodness, I had never seen
swimsuits like that. Last Sunday morning, as I was talking with one
of the acolytes, trying to recall the name of the magazine, the
young boy acolyte knew the name of that magazine right away. This
past week, my wife and I went to a movie, called, OUTRAGEOUS
FORTUNE, and we came into the movie some fifteen minutes late and
saw one of the hottest sex scenes that I had ever seen in my life.
Whoof. My contact lenses fogged over. They steamed up. I had never
seen anything like that. My, my, my, my.
And Jesus said,
“Do not put yourself into a situation which cause you to lust
after another person. If there is anything that causes you to lust
and have unhealthy sexual desires towards another, cut that out of
your life. Do not fan the flames of lust. Do not fan the flames of
unhealthy sexual attraction.” That only make your own spouse not
to look so attractive. By doing so, it creates much unhealthy energy
towards a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Cut out from your life those
things that contribute to you lusting after another. For you my
disciples are to live a life of personal holiness.
The third
commandment of Jesus’ new morality for his disciples concerned
divorce. In the Old Testament, it was said, “A man can simply say
to his wife, I divorce you, I divorce you, I divorce you, but now I
say to you, Whoever divorces a person except for grounds of
unchastity, that person commits adultery. Whoever marries a divorce
person marries an adulterous person.”
Those are very
strong words. What do these words mean for us today? What do these
words mean when we look across our congregation and there are so
many divorced and remarried people in our congregation, some
divorced and remarried thirty years ago? How do we interpret these
words of Jesus?
Obviously, we
don’t take them literally and legalistically. We know that it is
important that people get divorces. For example, I have said on more
than one occasion to a woman whose husband had become physically
abusive to his wife, I said to her, “You had better get rid of
that man. He is cruel to you and to your children. He is sick. He
won’t get help. I think that you need to be thinking about
divorce.” So we all know that there are situations in life where
we need to divorce.
Even knowing that
there are situations where divorce is necessary, we know that the
deep energy of God is to have us be reconciled with our spouse. If
you are caught in that situation, God wants you, if humanly and
divinely possible, to make up those differences between the two of
you. God wants you to pray for the inner forgiveness needed between
the two of you. That is what God wants you to do: to be reconciled.
And so in these
verses, Jesus talks about personal holiness. Jesus wants us his
disciples to have a personal holiness with those we have conflicts
with, personal holiness in our sexual fantasies, and personal
holiness in our marriages.
But…can any one
of us obey the law of God? Can any one of us obey the law of God
perfectly? Can any of us do that?
I would like to
tell you a story about a group of ten men who were soldiers. These
soldiers had been locked in vicious battles for three years, and in
one battle, all ten were killed. All ten went up to the pearly gates
of heaven to see Simon Peter who was the guardian of the gates into
heaven. Simon Peter came out and said, “Good to see you men here
today. I have been expecting you although you had not been expecting
to see me. Would you please sit in those ten desks there, right
outside the pearly gates? I will give you each a piece of paper, a
pencil, and please write the numbers one to ten on the paper.” All
the big burly soldiers, still in their military fatigues and
splattered with mud and blood, did what they were told to do and sat
down at the desks. Peter then instructed them, “You answer ‘yes
or no’ to these ten questions. Question number one: Did you love
the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and soul, and your
neighbor as yourself? Yes or no.” The soldiers looked at each
other, puzzled, not sure if they should be truthful or not. Didn’t
seem wise to lie to Peter. Peter said, “The second commandment:
you shall not take the name of the Lord God in vain. Did you ever
swear when in your life ore recently when you were a soldier?” The
soldiers, knowing their everyday vocabulary, looked at each other
quizzically. “The third commandment: you shall remember the
Sabbath day to keep it holy. Did you go church on a regular basis
and worship God with other Christians?” The soldiers became
agitated and nervous. The fourth commandment, “Did you honor your
parents and all in authority at all times?” Silence. The fifth
commandment: “You shall not kill. Did you soldiers kill?” The
soldiers knew their jobs for the past three years. How many people
had they killed? Who knew? Who kept track? It was a bloody war.
Peter continued with the questions about the sixth, seventh, eighth,
ninth and tenth commandments, and the soldiers seemed to be slipping
deeper into their fox holes. Finally, after the questions were
finished, the leader of the platoon raised his hand and asked,
“Simon Peter, how many do you have to get correct to get into the
pearly gates?” The men nodded in appreciation. The platoon leader
continued asking the questions on behalf of the men, “What if you
get two right? Maybe three? Maybe four? Is that good enough to get
in?” Simon Peter, with his steely gray eyes, looked right at the
leader and spoke without a hint of hesitation: “You have to get
them all right. You have to get l00%.” The soldiers reacted as you
would have guessed. They turned over their papers in disgust; they
collectively grunted their disapproval. They put down their pencils
and threw up their hands in disbelief. About that time, Jesus walked
through the pearly gates and into the classroom of desks where the
men were seated. Jesus said, “I have taken the test for you and I
have scored l00% for you. Come into my kingdom.”
And all the
soldiers went, “wheeew.” And all the people of the earth crossed
themselves and when “wheeew.”
Yes, forgiveness is
the means by which we enter the kingdom of God. None of us will
enter the pearly gates and heaven because of our obedience but by
his gracious gift that he has given for us by his death on the
cross.
Knowing that,
knowing that we are forgiven, knowing that we cannot keep the Old
Law of the Old Testament perfectly, knowing that we cannot keep the
New Law of the New Testament perfectly, knowing all of that does not
mean that we practice ala carte Christianity. It does not
mean that the Ten Commandments become the ten suggestions. It does not
mean that we relax the Ten Commandments. Rather, being inspired by
Jesus’ forgiveness and love, his Spirit lives inside of us so that
we live a righteous and holy life. The generous forgiveness of God
lives inside of us; the love of Jesus lives inside of us; therefore
we want to live a life of righteousness, of right relationships with
all people around us. And in those right relationships, we find the
personal holiness of God.
Jesus said, “Do
not relax what you think are the least of the commandments. Do not
relax the commandments nor shall you teach others to relax them. But
do my commandments and teach others to do my commandments and
thereby live a life of righteousness, of right relationships with
all those around you. For my commandments are not so difficult that
you can not do them.” Amen.
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